Relationships in the Namesake
This is incomplete... Scales just wanted me to publish it. Each of the women plays a significant role in Gogol's life and his overall development. Each relationship represents a different stage of Gogol's identity crisis. With Ruth, we see Gogol totally separate himself from his Bengali culture. When he dated Maxine, he totally embraced American culture until he was forced to include her in his Bengal lifestyle. After his Father's death, Gogol fully embraces his Bengali roots and marries Moushimi. In the end, Gogol seperates from Moushimi and ends up alone. I do not believe Moushimi will be happy in a relationship until he finds a middle ground. Gogol needs to find a relationship in which he can embrace both sides of himself instead of strictly American or Bengali. The last sentences of the novel shows that Gogol has started to accept who he is and all of his relationships helped him achieve this in their own way. "As the hours of the evening pass he will grow ...